I'll keep this one short for now...
Recently a coworker of mine admitted during lunch that she and former coworker had conversations about me over the weekend. They discussed what could possibly be wrong with me for me to be single. I was complimented on my looks and my efficiency and even temper and they just couldn't figure it out.
The only thing I could come up with is...people get on my nerves.
I know I know, folks will always get on your nerves for as long as you roam this earth, so get over it and pick someone, but...ugh. Settling's never been my thing. The word itself, makes me cringe.
I explained to her that I ALWAYS meet guys in these really romantic scenarios that would be really cute to tell our great grandchildren 60-70 years from now as we gaze into each other's glaucoma, and then...it all goes to hell. Straight. To. Hell. I don't know why when I'm turned off by someone, it's so abrupt and irreversible, but it is. And I like me, so I'm not changing that part of who I am. I always try to be friends with whoever it is after the fact until we have to start reminiscing and then I don't wanna play that game anymore. Not going to say that it's never my fault, but again, who likes beating a dead horse. Let it go.
But I'm open to what comes and where it goes. Here's to hoping for the best and never settling. Find someone who runs with you. Shout out to all the lovers and friends...
dig and be dug...
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